Archive for January, 2012

Sexy Art

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

WHILE IN THE TATE  SOME YEAR AGO,  MY MIND STUFFED WITH ART, BUT MY HEART EMPTY, I CAME ACROSS A PIECE THAT HAS SINCE BEEN MY FAVORITE.  MY BED, CREATED BY TRACEY EMIN.  WHAT I LIKE ABOUT THIS PIECE IS ITS CONFESSIONAL VALUE. THERE IS A SHIFT FROM ARTISTS GIVING A PIECE OF THEMSELVES, AND GIVING THEMSELVES TOTALLY TO ART.  EMINS’ BED WAS A BOLD MOVEMENT TOWARDS  EXPLOSIVE FEMALE SEXUALITY AND DECONSTRUCTION OF THE STEREOTYPE OF THE FEMALE HOUSEKEEPER.  I FIND THIS PIECE SEXIER THAN NUDE IMAGES BECAUSE IT SHARES MORE INTIMACY WITH THE VIEWER.

Eco Sexual

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

I reccenty attended a seimnar/happening in San Franciso with the lovely Annie Sprinkle entitledk,  SEXECOLOGY: MAKING LOVE WITH THE EARTH, SKY AND SEA.

All of those great things combined made for a very happy poly grrl.   Sprinkle introduced me to a term/idea that had been perculating in my brain for some time- ecosexual .  Since I love words, and I love the internet I wanted to know what the vast voice of the web had to say about eco-sexuality.

Urban Dictionary, obvisouly the best of all webites for research of this matters states.

ECOSEXUAL 

A TERM DESCRIBING A PERSON, IN A DATING SENSE, WHO IS SOCIAL AND ENVIRONMENTALLY CONSCIOUS. SIMILAR TO METRO SEXUAL, BUT FOR SOMEONE WHO WEARS AND BUYS ORGANIC ITEMS AND DRIVES A HYBRID CAR.

Sprink, terms this a bit differnetly.   She states that than eco sexual goes beyond the relationship of the Earth as a mother, to one as a lover.  This love you can have for the Earth also lets you haven E-spot.   A part of nature that is an erogenous zone.

This shift from mother to move  is a move in the direction of  Freduian maturity. As a child grows their attachments from a parental love moves to a non parental one.  As enviromentalism grows, there is no reason why this hold true. In the relationship between  parent and child  the child respects the parent because they “have to”.  This is inherent authority.   This does not hold true in a healthy lover relationship. Respect in a non parental relationship is equalized.

This also related to eco-feminism.

Ec0-feminism is  awareness of the link between women and the Earth, and how a debasement of one is a tradgey to both.  This leads me to a question

– Is sexualizing the Earth also over sexualizing women?   Are we creating a MILF out of Mother Nature?

 

 

 

 

// BAD DATE/TOO MUCH ON PLATE/ONE TO MANY MATES//

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

AS A FULL TIME STUDENT/GAMER/WORKER COG/GIRLFRIEND  I DONT DATE MUCH.  I USED TO ❤ DATING! GETTING DRESSED UP, THE THRILL, RE-TELLING MY AWESOME STORIES TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE HEARD THEM!

BUT LATELY IT HAS BEEN.. WELL BORING.  I HAVE HAD TWO BAD DATES IN THE PAST MONTHS.   Is it me? LETS DISCUSS.

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First Date- THAT WENT WELL!

BUT THE 2ND- JUST AWFUL.  THE SECOND DATE WE WENT BACK TO HIS TRAILER, ATE CHINESE  TAKE OUT WHILE HIS THREE YEAR OLD PLAYED WITH HIS IPAD.  YES THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENED.  I DONT MIND THE HOME DATE, I DONT MIND KIDS, I DONT MIND CHINESE FOOD. BUT ALL TOGETHER IT WAS WEIRD.  IT WAS LIKE WE WERENT DATING ANYMORE, AND HE WAS PRE TESTING ME TO LIVE WITH HIM.  THIS FOR A SECOND DATE WAS A MISTAKE.

THE THIRD DATE WITH SAID PERSON, WAS LOOKING AT STARS. COULD HAVE BEEN ROMANTIC! A LONG DRIVE, STARS, WILDERNESS.  BUT INSTEAD HE FORGOT BLANKETS AND WE WERE STUCK IN THE CAR WHILE HE FIDDLED WITH AN STAR APP. THESE “DATES” MAKE ME THINK.. AM I BORING? AM I PUTTING OFF BORING VIBES?

IN DEFENSE OF THIS… I THINK I AM PRETTY GOSH DARN INTERESTING.

IS IT BECAUSE I AM POLY THAT PEOPLE THINK ITS OKAY NOT TO TREAT ME AS A POTENTIAL GIRLFRIEND?  BUT AS A SUPER CASUAL PERSON WHO THEY MIGHT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH?

Rough Sex 2 Review

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

I AM INTO COMBINATION THERAPY- COMBING WOW WITH SEX,  FOOD AND SEX,  INTELIGENCE AND SEX.. SEE A THE ME HERE.

PORN IS A TYPE OF SEX, ESPECIALLY TRISTAN TARIMINO’S PORN.  HER NEW LINE OF DVDS DEPEND ON THE STAR CHOOSING THEIR SCENE AND PARTNER. THIS GIVES A HOLISTIC VIEW OF THE PERSON, THAT OTHER MOVIES DO NOT HAVE.  THESE ARE WOMEN IN COMMAND OF THEIR SEXUALITY IN A VERY RARE AND EXCITING WAY.

FROM THE BOX

EACH WOMAN SHARES HER MOST INTIMATE DESIRES, TESTS HER OWN BOUNDARIES, AND RIDES THE SEDUCTIVE LINE BETWEEN PLEASURE AND PAIN. WITNESS FEMALE SEXUALITY AT ITS MOST EXTREME: RAW, ROUGH, AND REAL

  SCENE BY SCENE

SCENE 1

MADISON YOUNG IS ALWAYS AMAZING.  HER GRACE AND COMPOSURE GIVE ANY FILM +4 CLASS.  WHILE I AM NOT INTO TO FEET, YOUNG MAKES IT MORE OF A SUBMISSIVE ACT, RATHER THAN A FOOT FETISH.   WHILE THE SCENES BETWEEN YOUNG AND DYLAN RYAN SUFFER FROM THE SAME TROPE AS MOST LESBIAN PORN- THAT ALTHOUGH ONE WOMAN IS DOMINATE OVER ANOTHER-THE DOMINATE ONE ALSO GETS PENETRATED- THE ENDING SCENE BETWEEN RYAN AND YOUNG IS MORE ORGANIC THAN MOST.

 

SCENE 2

WHAT CAN BE SAID ABOUT BOBBI STAR, THAT ISNT SAID ALREADY? SHE IS THE PENULTIMATE MILF, A PORN STAR OF NEBULA QUALITY. HER EARLY WORK IN INSEX GAVE HER AN EDGE THAT HAS SOFTENED  IN RECENT FILMS, BUT CAN BE SEEN HERE.  THE SCENE FOLLOWS THE STANDARD SET,  BLOW JOB, FUCKING, TOY FUCKING, THEN MONEY SHOT- BUT IT IS SPECIAL BECAUSE  1) ITS BOBBI STAR  AND 2) THE SCENE  IS FEELS MORE VOYEURISTIC THAN TYPICAL PORN.  THIS IS BECAUSE BOBBI STAR DOES NOT  BREAK THE THIRD WALL AND LOOK AT THE CAMERA, BUT IT ONLY PERFORMING FOR HERSELF.

SCENE 3

CLAIRE ADAMS IS A NEWER KID ON THE BLOCK. A ROPE SLUT LIKE MADISON YOUNG, SHE MADE THE JUMP TO ADULT MOVIES. UNLIKE YOUNG, SHE TAKES ON A LESBIAN  DOMME  ROLE IN MOST MOVIES.  ROUGH SEX 2 IS NO DIFFERENT. THE SCENE IS SHOT LIKE A JAKE MALONE COVER BAND COMPLETE WITH PINK SHEETS AND TOYS. HOWEVER, UNLIKE MALONE WHO RELIES ON PYTS,  THE SCENES BETWEEN CLAIRE ADAMS AND APRIL FLORES RELIES ON WOMEN NOT GIRLS.

SCENE 4

AGAIN WE SEE THE WONDERFUL MADISON YOUNG, BUT THIS TIME ENGAGING IS SOME HETRO BDSM. THIS SCENE IS A PONY FETISHES DREAM!

THE QUALITY OF THIS MOVIE IS AMAZING, NO CHEAP PAN AND SCAN, BAD GONZO MOVES, OR CAMERA SHAKING.  TRISTAN TARMINO LETS HER PORN STARS SHINE ON THEIR OWN. I WOULD HIGHLY RECOMMEND  BUYING/RENTING THIS FILM FOR ANYONE, THE TIMID TO EXPLORE, THE FETISH TO ENJOY AND THE CASUAL PORN VIEW TO APPRECIATE.

SUMMARY

THIS IS FILM IS BEYOND SEXY. THIS IS WHAT PORN IS SUPPOSED TO BE. A LITTLE NAUGHTY, A LITTLE EDUCATIONAL AND A MASSIVE TURN ON.  I RECOMMEND THIS FILM TO NEWBIES, OR VETERANS OF PORN.   IT IS AVAILABLE FOR POV RENTAL, AND PURCHASE.

Ohmibod wired Review

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

I AM A SELF AND OTHER DESCRIBED AS A GADGET GIRL.  AS I TYPE, THE ELECTRONICS SPLAYED ABOUT ARE

  • 1) MACBOOK PRO
  •  2) HTC SMART PHONE
  •   3) LIVE SCRIBE SMART PEN
  • 4) ITOUCH
  • 5) ELECTRONIC LASER TOY FOR MY AWESOME CAT.
  • 6) THE OHMIBOD  NAUGHTIBOD VIBE FROM VA-VA VOOM.

SINCE I LIKE/LOVE  ALL THINGS ELECTRONIC AND SEX, IT MADE  SENSE TO COMBINE THE TWO, IN A NON CYBERPUNK WAY.

THE OHMIBOD VIBES  GAINED  MASS POPULARITY A COUPLE YEARS AGO DURING THE ACCESSORIZE YOUR IPOD CRAZE. THEN IT WAS OVERSHADOWED BY ITS VERY DIFFERENT COMPETITOR THE RABBIT. THIS IS  UNFORTUNATE SINCE THE  OHMIBOD VIBES ARE QUALITY MADE, QUIET LITTLE MACHINES.

 FROM THE OUTSIDE 

THIS VIBE HAS A NICE VELVETY FEEL. AS SOME ONE WHO HAS USED PLASTIC IN THE PAST, THE TACTILE TOUCH IS NICE.  IT DOESN’T FEEL COLD WHEN INSERTED, WHICH IS A SECRET PLUS. THE INDENTS ARE SPACED  ANATOMICALLY  CORRECTLY AT ABOUT ONCE INCH APART. THIS ALLOWS DIFFERENT PARTS OF YOUR VAGINA TO GRIP THE TOY.  THE WIDTH OF THE TOY ISNT MUCH, ABOUT AN INCH AT THE WIDEST, IT ISNT GOING TO GIVE YOU A STRETCHED FEELING, WHICH IF THAT IS GOOD OR BAD IS UP YOU.   AN AVERAGE VAGINA IS ONLY 5INCHES DEEP, THE TOY IS INSERTABLE TO 4.5 SO IT GIVES A FEELING OF FULLNESS, WITH OUT HURTING, AND A GOOD WARM UP FOR THE SIZE QUEENS OUT THERE.

THE OHMIBOD TAKES SOME GETTING USED TO. IT IS DRASTICALLY  DIFFERENT FROM OTHER VIBES/INSERT-ABLE TOYS.  FOR EXAMPLE THE TOY IS NOT  ”PLUG AND PLAY” –  TAKE YOUR TIME AND DISCOVER WHAT THIS VIBE CAN GIVE.   DOWNLOAD SOME NEW SONGS, UPDATE YOUR PANDORA/SPOTIFY WITH MUSIC THAT YOU THINK WOULD BE WORTH EXPERIENCING.  MY RECOMMENDATION IS THAT IF YOU HAVE A PARTNER, MAKE A PLAYLIST WITH THEM.  THIS IS GOOD COMMUNICATION ABOUT MUSIC AND SEX.

 NUTS AND BOLTS 

IT COMES WITH AN 3.5 IN ADAPTER, SO YOU CAN PLUG IT IN TO A MICROPHONE, AN I(ANYTHING), ANY SMART PHONE.  WHILE PLUGGED IN, THE VIBE “RECOGNIZES” THEN “TRANSCRIBES” THE SOUND TO VIBRATIONS.

I ALSO HOOKED THIS UP TO MY COMPUTER WHILE PLAYING WOW.  THERE SEEMED TO BE A LONGER DELAY BETWEEN THE SOUND AND FURY THAN WITH A SMALLER DEVICE, BUT RAIDING  DUNGEONS BECAME AMAZING!  I WENT FROM A LEVEL 34 TO A 40 OVERNIGHT! .

THE INTENSITY IS CONTROL BY THE VOLUME CONTROL ON THE OUT  DEVICE . THIS IS CAN BE FRUSTRATING WITH THOSE WITH ROCKER TYPE VOLUME CONTROLS, SINCE THEY DON’T SEEM TO BE AS RESPONSIVE AS A IPHONE OR ITOUCH TYPE OF CONTROL SYSTEM.  THE VIBE DOES COME WITH 7 PRE PROGRAMED INTENSITIES, SO THAT IS AN EASY FIX!

IT DOES HAVE A SMALL LEARNING CURVE SO I WOULD NOT RECOMMEND TO AS A FIRST VIBRATOR.  BUT TO EVERY ONE ELSE- THIS WILL CHANGE THE WAY YOU  EXPERIENCE  MUSIC.

– THESE  HOW-TO  VIDEOS FROM THE OHMIBOD  ARE SFW


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