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Fulfill your Blood Lust!

Monday, November 5th, 2012

Product  Blood Lust – by Wicked Cosmetics 

Price : $10 for  8fl oz.  Free Shipping!

Effervescent as usual, the multi talented Ms Ginger Christiansen spoke with me about her new venture- Blood Massage Oil!  This is an understandable off shoot, combing two of her passions, the goth ideology and cosmetics.
Already a verified mad scientists via her Wicked Line of Cosmetics, she puts the same passion in this product.

While most lubes are made of icky ingredients, that are bad for your body/skin . The Blood massage oil has only 5.  That is right, you can count the  ingredients on one hand and  and pronounce them!

I usually follow the idea that if I can’t pronounce it, it’s not going in my body. Well not including ethic food. But  with everything else- this rule is solid.

Lets compare lube/massage oils-
K-Y the most popular lube/Massage Oil has these ingredients

Aqua, glycerine, hydroxyethylcellulose, gloconolactone, chlorhexidine digluconate, methylparaben, sodium hydroxide.

Wicked Line of Massage Oil
Olive Oil, flaxseed, earth based pigment, coconut oil  *scent extract.

Which  would you  you want -next to and perhaps inside of your body?

Why Blood?
It is the opinion of the author that the blood massage oil gives people a safe space to discover /embrace/understand the fetish for blood play.
Previous to this invention, there was not a safe space to discover this fetish. You could watch others or do it yourself. This massage oil gives a welcomed intermediary phase.This is a great product for those inside of a poly relationship to discover the idea of blood bonding.

Plus… its just plain cool.

I dont normally use lube in everyday sexual explorations. However my interest in this product was peaked so I used it solo and during heterosexual sex.As a note this massage  oil is supposed to feel like there is something there.  Think about this lube like goth make-up.  You want people to know it is being used for effect.

Solo Use
A little goes a long way. It was has a satiny finish rather than a slick feel. It feels like a heavier version of Liquid Silk, but not as heavy as Astro Glide. I like the weight of the lube. My clit is extra  sensitive,so the buffer of the extra weight worked well for me.
Always check with your toys to see if they are compatible with different lube/oil.

Heterosexual sex

I used this with my  male partner. He is not into blood play- but played along for Science! We used it during hand jobs and vaginal sex with a condom and with out.*

The handjob  “felt weird but good”.  This weirdness is due to the fact that it “really did feel like jerking off with blood”.  This was not a fetish for him, but was not all together  “icky” feeling.

As the giver of said handjob- I enjoyed the weight and non super slipperiness. I dislike water based lubes like ID, because they not only dry out, but also because you can not get a good rhythm going. This oil lasted  more than thirty minutes and did not break down.

Sex with a condom– The combo was different for my partner and I- since we don’t normally use lube or condoms.  But again Science!.  Between the thickness of the condom and the weight of the lube- I found that my partner could turn up the intensity quicker.

Sex with out a condom*

This mimicked the feel of having sex during my period, during a lighter flow. Menstrual blood has more viscosity than the sample. However this could be a another version!

I felt like there was lube there. Normally I dislike this feeling because it is normally a sign of over use or my body rejecting the “wetness”. However with this lube, idea that “something” was there was part of the fun.

Part of the fun is the highly visual nature of the lube. It give you an all month access to your red wing fetish!

Tips for Use:
Like most oils, a little goes a long way. Pour some in your hand, and rub it on your skin. See how it looks and feels. Most oils will just lie on top of your epidermis like a blow up doll. This will soak into your skin like a lotion.

Since it is a bit thicker, you can put more pressure on the delicate parts of the anatomy head of the penis, clit.

It does not stain sheets with color however the coconut oil/olive oil can leave a residue if using silk/satin sheets. This is the same with all oils and lubes. This article might be useful on stain removal.

Usually I would recommend a skin test however with the   ingredients  this products I do not deem it necessary.

Another tips for use-  Ask Ginger! Use the Contact button to send her a message!

A benefit of having some one that  is passionate  about what she does, is that she is more than willing to answer your questions, and share education about her products with you.


I would like to see a thicker version, with maybe small bits of “blood clots”  floating.

The red is more orange than red-However it is my understanding that this is being worked on!

Plans for the Future

One of the best things about having a beat on new products is the excitement of the creators, but also the ability to follow  products  from inception.
It is Gingers’ desire that the lube be sold via glass jars, and she will be branching out with Zombie and perhaps Alien Blood!


♥ No petrochemicals
♥ No parabens which irritate sensitive tissue
♥ Natural  Ingredients
♥ 100% Vegan
♥ Cruelty Free
♥ Edible

At $10 it is steal!   The Lish website does require you to have Facebook- However you can always contact Ginger, and she will guide you through other payment options.

*Having unprotected sex is always dangerous. My partner and I have a fluid bond agreement.


*some education about lube/massage oil.
Think about where that stuff goes. While we are worried about what is in our food,our grocery bags etc- we are more than happy to slather our sexual parts with stuff we would not even eat.
Mucous membranes are the moist layer of semi-permeable tissue lining the mouth, nose, eyes, vagina and anus. Because they do not have the protective layer found on the surface of the outer skin, mucous membranes can be damaged, irritated and penetrated by synthetic chemicals more easily.

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Tenga in Tandem

Wednesday, June 20th, 2012

I have been crazy excited to write this review ever since its inception.  I am always looking for ways to make my blog “stand out”. I do this by approach (educational) and humor. However I have also decided to review different toys and sexual accoutrements. I am also hoping to have a extra special male Guest Blogger!

In Sex Toy reviews, there is a large emphasis on female toys.  This is due to the fact  majority of toys are for women. This becomes a quagmire and a Ouroboros of sex toy vs sex toy review. So here I am- Putting that snake on a diet!

My goal is to have at least   25% male (both sex and gender representation)  sex toy representation by the end of the year.   This lack of diversity has bothered me since I began doing reviews.  This is hurtful to sexuality and sex education.  because only one side gets to be heard/read/blogged about. While I like the  strength of the female sexual  voice,  non cis gender and male voices are not represented.

The Tenga Deep Throat Cup is a  masturbation sleeves similar to its flashier cousin Frankie the FleshLight.  In appearance it looks like the dreaded Red Solo Cup. If you are not a country music fan, or just out of college it should not bother you.  The use of the toy was reported to me as “easy”.  It also appeared to be “plug and play”.   One would unscrew it, and thrust into it as needed.  There is a hole on the top for your finger to control the suction. Placing your finger on the small hole created a vacuum tightness, where as removing the finger allowed air to escape. This was great for mimicking the contraction of vaginal muscles.

The overall sensation was reported as a 4/5.  The lubrication was a water based lube with little smell and no stickiness. It was a tad over  lubricated for the a first time, but after play the ratio evened out. There is also a ring of pressure near the top.  This is special of the “Deep Throat” cup. This ring is meant to feel like the throat.  As reported it did not feel like a throat, but felt great.  I would imagine it felt as “realistic” as a dildo feels to a vagina.  This toy is  large, and can fit up to an 11inch penis. The Cup also was easy to use in partner play.   It stayed on the penis, but was also easy to remove, It was easy to use as a woman, and aided in foreplay.  This is a great toy for people  who want to teach their partner how to jack them off. One of the concerns I had was the lube.  As a note it is propylene glycol based, and some are allergic to it.

Since it is a masturbation sleeve the comparison to the FleshLight is unavoidable.  A Pro over the Fleshlight is cost.  Ranging from $10-15  the Tenga Deep Throat Cup is much more affordable than the  $60-70 Fleshlight. It is also smaller and a bit less kitschy.  A con is that it does not last as long. The Tenga has about 10-15 uses to it. The Fleshlight has infinite uses.  It is not as ribbed as the Fleshlight. This being a pro/con is up to personal choice.
I liked the idea of being a sexy reporter with my partner, and hope to do it again!

product picture
Masturbator by Tenga
Material: Plastic / TPE

Feminist Porn Awards!

Monday, April 23rd, 2012


Instead of creating pages of reviews for porn- I will be reviewing them at This will allow for NSFW content.